Dont nestle over an argument. Dont expect a resolution that same day. The more important an argument is the more complicated it will probably be. As a result a true resolution will take time, effort and patience. It will also take resources both intellectual as well as emotional. The first person to attempt to reach a resolution on the spot without letting the other person think about it, already proved that they dont respect the arguments profound and deep-rooted nature. The more serious and the more important the argument the more this is true.

There is not such thing as a free lunch. Same goes for women. No woman will give herself to a man and care for a man for free. If you truly want to have her, you will need to have an advantage over her. When you argue and resolve every time she misses the point, youre giving away your value to her for free. Continuing the disagreement when you know you are right is the same thing as giving away your advantage. In fact, since you are right, theres only one person getting new information out of the discussion, and that is not you.

When you know shes wrong about something, and you have beneficial information that could help her, dont just give it away. Cast in your bait. Voice your opinion. This could be a simple phrase. A one or two liner. Isnt that the same restaurant that was found out to be haunted by ghosts not too long ago? Here comes the critical part. This is the most important part about learning to use arguments and how to turn them around in your favor. As soon as you have started an argument, let it go; dont say anything. She will start to voice her opinion. She will want you to give proof. She wont stop until you have disclosed your whole side of the story. Dont do it. This is the leverage that you maintain in the form of knowledge, and knowledge is power.

When you have started an argument, you dont necessarily want to finish it. If she really wants go get that special insight she lacks, she will work for it. Meanwhile, you can change the topic, talk about something else, start a new topic and generally let the discussion fizzle. But dont worry, once a disagreement erupted, its not really going anywhere. She will always come back to you.

Another misconception men have about women happens when men try to avoid tension. Men are logical thinkers. When there is a problem they like to retreat to their cave to resolve it. Women are different. They crave tension. They love it when youre exciting, unpredictable, and unexpected. Thats why they call it chemistry and sexual tension. Women love tension. As men when we detect tension we try to fix it. Because we are logical we miss the boat.

A true Casanova knows that women thrive on tension and chemistry. Once hes started an argument, he stops arguing and disengages himself from the pursuit. He lets her pursue him. He sits back and watches her squirm and wiggle emotionally. No matter how much she begs and pleads, he doesnt tell her anything until she gives him exactly what he wants. Then, he uses the insight he has over her to spoon feed it to her a little bit at a time.

So remember guy, when ever youre having an argument with a woman, especially if you are right, chances are you are having an insight which you could be taking advantage of.