Don Juan DeMarco is a movie about a man who truly believes that he is Don Juan the greatest lover the world has ever known. Men who want to learn how to attract women can learn a lot by watching and modeling Don Juan Demarco. The very first scene has Johnny Depp who plays Don Juan dressed in 17th century garb and at first appears is taking place in the 17th century, yet it takes place in modern day. Don Juan is comfortable with who he is even if the women with whom he is with are not. When you make a woman enter your reality and refuse anything else youalso control the outcome since anywhere she goes in your reality is new for her. When talking to a woman instead of telling her what he is going to do to her, he tells her what happens when a man really knows how to make love with a woman. When he also takes her hand and begins demonstrating the whole process he not only uses it as an anchor but allows her to become comfortable with his touch and actually begin to crave it even more. All of this occurs in the first 10 or so minutes of the movie and if you were to watch only the first ten minutes of the movie you would have more than enough to learn about attracting women. Throughout the movie Don Juan understands that he in a different reality than the one in which he perceives, however, all the women in the movie are more than happy to live in his reality rather than there own even if only for a moment. Don Juan's recognition that a woman is beautiful no matter what others think is a very important point as well. Many times men don't go after a woman they find attractive not because they don't want to but because they fear what others might say. When you realize that what you like is what you like and nobody's opinion matters but yours, you will find a door open to women that you might not otherwise have known. Overall this is a great movie for men to gain an understanding of what it takes to attract women. When a man perceives his own reality to be very high women will naturally be attracted to him because what he has to offer is something much more exciting or different than anything in there own reality, even if the only difference is in the perception. While it is not necessary to go to the extreme of a Don Juan, I am sure you can find things in your own reality in which you can make the perception much greater than the reality. |
