Are you lost? Are you searching for something in life yet never seem to find it?

If you want to be successful at something, perhaps the easiest way is to look for somebody who is already successful in that field. Once you have done that you can then model yourself around that person. For instance, if you want to learn guitar find a good guitarist who can either teach you personally or, if that is not possible, you can copy the way they play.

Make sure that the person you choose is successful. What would be the sense in taking advice from somebody who has no experience? Many people do just that. They listen to somebody who has no idea. Often such a person is a family member or a friend. Dare I say it? The all-knowing brother-in-law or sister-in-law. They just know everything about everything. Don't they?

It is wise to take advice but only from those who you know are qualified to give it. If in doubt, do some research. Find out more about the coach or mentor you are considering using. Does that person have the track record that you wish you had? If so, go ahead - approach them. Some will decline but many will be flattered. Remember this too - if you don't ask, the answer is always "no."

Warren Buffet is the most experienced and successful investor in the world. Do you think it might be a good idea to take investment advice from him? You can, you know. You don't have to know him personally. In fact, even getting an audience with him would be virtually impossible. But he does have many books that you can study. Here is a quote from Warren Buffet:

"If you can tell me who your heroes are I can tell you how you are going to turn out in life."

The quote above indicates that Warren Buffet believes that he is able to tell what sort of person you will become not only by who you idolize but also by the type and quality of people who you associate with. Do you think Mr Buffet might have powerful, influential and forward thinking friends and associates? You better believe it. What about you? What are your key friends and associates like? Might it be time to start seeking out people that you can move forward with?

What about a mentor? Have you found somebody who you respect and who you can take a lead from? Find a mentor. Model yourself around that person. It's the quickest path to achieving what you want.

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Gary Simpson

Gary Simpson lives in Perth, Western Australia.

His passions are writing (of course), reading, karate, body building, investment and growing tropical palms.

His website is devoted to helping people achieve greater success and self esteem through personal development.

Gary is a regular contributor to numerous magazines and newspapers. His articles and short stories appear in many forums. Thanks to the wonders of the internet, they are now being shared worldwide.

He has written eight books:

LARGE VOLUMES:

- "Journey,Life and Destiny" - personal development (2 vols)

- "How to Save $1000's and Increase Your Personal Net Wealth"

- "Brain Training - Affirmations to Strengthen Mind and Body"

- "Strike Back 1" - Self Defence Instruction Manual

- "Strike Back 2" - Self Defence Instruction Manual

SHORT VOLUMES:

- "The Power of Choice" (FREE e-book) - a popular story about a man looking back on his achievements from the hereafter. It is a poignant story that has received accolades from all over the world - from Iceland to Canada to Great Britain to Morocco to New Zealand to the Czech Republic to the USA - and dozens of countries in between.

The Power of Choice is a free resource and can be downloaded directly from Gary's website.

- "Using Motivation and Self Esteem to Excel in Everything You Do" (FREE e-book) - valuable resource to introduce newcomers to the wonders of personal development. This book is available on request. You can secure your copy by leaving your name and email address (no "hotmail" addresses accepted) at his Motivation & Self Esteem for Success website.

Gary's unique approach has been shaped by his 35 year pursuit of karate and his 15 year study of the principles of motivation. He has two personal mottos. These are:

"Excellence of Execution."

and

"Imagination is Infinite."

You can learn a great deal about all matters regarding motivation and self esteem at his website. You will find articles, interviews with achievers, motivational messages and other material. You can even opt to receive free material by visiting the "zenspiration" page.

The Motivation and Self Esteem for Success website was constructed by Linda Caroll who Gary has called the "Kyoshi of Website Design" (In karate terminology Kyoshi means "Polished Master"). Visit Gary's website to see for yourself.